These are the books that I am reading currently. I switch back and forth. The one that inspires me the most is actually the Just 10 lbs. Not because I'm all excited that I've found the secret to weight loss, but it is addressing our emotional needs. It provides actual mental exercises and journaling to help people learn to love themselves first. It's very appropriate for where I'm at right now. The How to Date your Wife - well I haven't shown that one to Fred yet. It has some very practical and totally right on information in it. Nothing hard, just everyday things we can do. Same with the 43 Ways to make aGood Marriage Great. I'm not a heavy duty reader.